Perempuan permain hati lelaki...

Terasa sangat pilu & kecewakan. Kenapalah kaum perempuan ingat bila perasaan kita ni dipermainkan kita akan feel macam biasa jer. Kata mereka yang hati lelaki ni lebih kuat & x mudah menangis akan sikap mereka yang suka mempermainkan hati lelaki ni.I have experience about it. Entah lah, kadang-kadang perempuan ni suka memberi 'hint' yang apabila ditafsirkan oleh sang perempuan ni yang lelaki ni juga suka dekat dia. Lelaki tu punyalah always ambil berat pasal sang perempuan punya life. Mesej dia sebelum tido,kejut bangun subuh, tanya pasal kerja, kesihatan. Senang cakap, apa yang lelaki tu buat seolah-olah menyatakan yang lelaki tu suka & sayang si perempuan tersebut.
 Si lelaki telah pun menyatakan perasaan dia kepada si perempuan yang sebenarnya. Masalahnya kenapa si perempuan ni tak berterus-terang dengan si lelaki tentang perasaanya yang sebenar. Seandainya tiada perasaan yang timbul dalam hati, tak perlulah mempermainkan hati daparasaan si sang lelaki. Salahkan kalau perempuan yang beritahu perasaannya yang sebenarnya kepada si lelaki. Walaupun jawapan yang tidak menyenangkan sang lelaki namun sekurang-kurangnya dinyatakan ketika di peringkat awal perhubungan. Sebelum sang lelaki menyimpan perasaan yang lebih mendalam terhadap sang perempuan.
 Takkan si perempuan tu tak perasaan akan perubahan sikap si lelaki ni. Sebab tu aku sangat tak setuju bila perempuan menjadikan perhubungan yang mempunyai syarat-syarat dan pantang larang bagi lelaki menyayangi, menyintai dan memiliki perempuan tersebut. Dari pengalaman aku sendiri, bagai nak gila jadinya apabila diletakkan syarat-syarat seperti tidak boleh berjumpa dalam beberapa bulan yang ditetapkan perempuan, menghadkan perbualan dalam talian misalnya...dengan memberi 1001 satu alasan seperti tidak tahu apa yang ingin di bicarakan, tidak pandai berbicara soal hati dan perasaan. Maksudnya, kalau kita nak dapatkan love, kita kena pertaruhkan kehidupan seharian, masa depan yang belum tentu memberi jawapan yang kita akan memiliki perempuan tersebut.persahabatan. Dan lagi pedih kalau dah jatuh cinta tapi mendapat balasan dingin darinya.  Sebab selepas luahkan je perasaan, semakin kekok lah perhubungan yang bakal di lalui.Takut kalau-kalau kena reject. Then, jangan harap la boleh berkawan lagi selagi tak hilangkan rasa kekok tu.
Lagi 1,tak semua lelaki mudah melupakan perasaannya kepada seorang perempuan tu. Tak semua dapat melupakan perempuan yang disayanginya pergi meninggalkannya. "Mulut kata OK tapi hati siapa yang tahu".So, kepada perempuan please la jangan patahkan hati seorang lelaki sesuka hatinya. Kalau tak nak fall in love dengan guy ni,so jauhkan diri dari dia awal-awal lagi. Don't make him feel that you love him too.

Tearin' Up My Heart

It's tearin' up my heart when I'm with you
But when we are apart I feel it too
And no matter what I do I feel the pain
With or without you
Baby I don't understand
Just why we can't be lovers
Things are gettin' out of hand
Tryin' too much but baby we can't win
Let it go
If you want me girl let me know
I am down on my knees
I can't take it anymore
 
Baby don't misunderstand
What I'm tryin' to tell ya
In the corner of my mind
Baby it feels like we're running out of time
Let it go
If you want me girl let me know
I am down on my knees
I can't take it anymore

Tearin' up my heart and soul
We're apart I feel it too
and no matter what I do I feel the pain
with or without you
Tearin' up my heart and soul
We're apart I feel it too
and no matter what I do I feel the pain
with or with out you
It's tearin up my heart when I'm with you
(Tearin' up my heart and soul)
But when we are apart I feel it too
(We're apart I feel it too)
And no matter what I do I feel the pain
With or without you
And no matter what I do I feel the pain
With or without you

Aku Bukan Untukmu

Dahulu kau mencintaiku
Dahulu kau menginginkanku
Meskipun tak pernah ada jawabku
Tak berniat kau tinggalkan aku
Sekarang kau pergi menjauh
Sekarang kau tinggalkan aku
Disaat ku mulai mengharapkanmu
Dan kumohon maafkan aku
Aku menyesal tlah membuatmu menangis
Dan biarkan memilih yang lain
Tapi jangan pernah kau dustai takdirmu
Pasti itu terbaik untukmu
Janganlah lagi kau mengingatku kembali
Aku bukanlah untukmu
Meski ku memohon dan meminta hatimu
Jangan pernah tinggalkan dirinya
Untuk diriku
Sekarang kau pergi menjauh
Sekarang kau tinggalkan aku
Disaat ku mulai mengharapkanmu
Dan kumohon maafkan aku
Aku menyesal tlah membuatmu menangis
Dan biarkan memilih yang lain
Tapi jangan pernah kau dustai takdirmu
Pasti itu terbaik untukmu
Janganlah lagi kau mengingatku kembali
Aku bukanlah untukmu
Meski ku memohon dan meminta hatimu
Jangan pernah tinggalkan dirinya
Meski ku memohon dan meminta hatimu
Jangan pernah tinggalkan dirinya
Untuk diriku

Dalam Kenangan

Permata hatiku Nurul Syamimi Syamila.

Have You Ever Really Loved A Woman?

To really love a woman

To understand her - you gotta know her deep inside

Hear every thought - see every dream

N' give her wings - when she wants to fly

Then when you find yourself lyin' helpless in her arms

Ya know ya really love a woman

When you love a woman you tell her

that she's really wanted

When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one

Cuz she needs somebody to tell her

that it's gonna last forever

So tell me have you ever really

- really really ever loved a woman?

To really love a woman

Let her hold you -

til ya know how she needs to be touched

You've gotta breathe her - really taste her

Til you can feel her in your blood

N' when you can see your unborn children in her eyes

Ya know ya really love a woman

When you love a woman

you tell her that she's really wanted

When you love a woman you tell her that she's the one

Cuz she needs somebody to tell her

that you'll always be together

So tell me have you ever really -

really really ever loved a woman?

You got to give her some faith - hold her tight

A little tenderness - gotta treat her right

She will be there for you, takin' good care of you

Ya really gotta love your woman...

Roses

Since ancient times, roses are considered to be the symbol of love and for centuries, giving someone a rose has been considered a beautiful gesture. Because roses are involved in so many stories and legends, each type of rose has its own meaning. So in a way, you can say that roses speak their own language.

Nowadays roses can be made more beautiful with the help of special inscriptions and other enhancements, and you can make your loved ones a really beautiful gift by giving them a special unique rose that will certainly impress them. You can do this without leaving your house with the help of the Internet. You can find special stores on the Internet that sell customized unique roses and deliver them to whomever you want together with a message from you if you want. This will definitely be a present that they will never forget.

There is a large variety of special single roses or rose bouquets that you can find available to order. Here are a few beautiful examples of what you can offer your loved ones :

If you want something simple, you can offer them a single stem rose that has a customized message on it. This message can be anything from 'Happy birthday', 'i love you', or even 'will you marry me'. These single roses also have a special wrapping around it.

If you want something more impressive, you can send a customized rose bouquet. This will contain the freshest roses, wrapped in a unique bouquet, and that can have your special messages printed on their petals. This bouquet may even have 30 roses in it, so it will surely impress.

You can also make some combinations with roses and other nice gifts like chocolate. Your loved one can receive a beautiful single rose together with a box containing the finest chocolate, and a love message from you. Or she can receive the rose (or rose bouquet) together with a luxury chocolate.

All the roses are very fresh and the bouquets are arranged by professional florists, so they would be a beautiful perfect gift for anyone!